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Finding My Lost iPhone: A Story of Apps, Obsession and a Good Samaritan

| March 3, 2014
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A 'Find My iPhone' map of the travels of Dan's Brekke's cellphone after he lost it.

A ‘Find My iPhone’ map of the travels of Dan’s Brekke’s cellphone after he lost it.

So here’s a still-troubling childhood memory: As a kid in grade school, my brothers and I would go home for lunch every day. Sometimes my mom would send me out to buy bread and Oscar Mayer luncheon meat and maybe some dessert. She’d give me a five-dollar bill, and I’d jump on my bike and ride five or six blocks to the nearest store.

Every once in a while, I wouldn’t have the money when I arrived at the market. Somehow, I’d have managed to drop the cash along the street, and it would just be gone. My reaction had several layers: I’d be sorry that I was going home empty-handed — hey, no bologna sandwiches today, guys. I’d be upset with myself for doing something so careless. I’d dread having to go back home to tell Mom I’d lost the money (again).

But there was something else, too; there was a sense of loss that went beyond the importance of a dropped five-dollar bill which, believe me, was important enough. My connection to something I wanted and needed had been severed; that thing was out in the world somewhere, maybe blowing along the street, or in the hands of some kid from school, or floating down the local creek. I could imagine anything and search all I wanted, but once that precious cash was out of my hands, my connection to it was broken and, yes, I felt bereft.

Since then, I’ve lost lots and lots of stuff — it’s part of the lifestyle if you accumulate things and take them outside the house. Among the pile of never-to-be-recovered items that have fled my possession: a baseball glove I liked; a brand-new and fully loaded daypack I somehow left on a Muni bus; more pairs of brand-name sunglasses than it’s decent to admit having owned; umbrellas, both inexpensive and pricey; a Kindle that apparently fell out of my pocket during a stroll through the city.

A few days ago, on the way to work, it was my iPhone’s turn to go missing. I realized after getting off BART and walking a few blocks that I didn’t have it. I did two or three of those self-pat-downs that are universal sign language for, “I’ve lost something important,” retraced my steps and checked with the BART station agent. No, no phones had been turned in anywhere along the line I’d been riding.

I headed to the office, pondering the potential damage. The phone has a pass code to prevent just anyone from picking it up and using it, but I assumed a skilled thief could defeat that. What sort of personal information was on the device? Lots. What else was important about the 2-year-old phone? Well, maybe not much. But I use its camera a lot and reflected sadly on the very last shot I had taken, just before I’d gotten on the train to the city.

At work, I went online to see if the iPhone finder app would actually tell me anything about the phone’s whereabouts. I was pleasantly surprised to see the phone’s location popped up immediately: It had traveled down the BART line a few stops, then accompanied some stranger to a residence in Daly City.

Whoa. The phone was moving again. Up to San Francisco General Hospital, just a half-mile from my office.

Now, the app lets you send a contact number and text message to whomever might have the phone, whether well-meaning stranger or light-fingered ne’er-do-well. I sent my office phone number and a message first thing. The app also allows you to turn on a loud, ringing pulse from the lost device. I activated that. The app offers a third option: Erase iPhone. If you know the phone has been stolen, hit that and, in theory, you can wipe your personal information from the device.

Nothing happened when I sent the phone number and message. The app had pinpointed the phone at a specific address. I street-viewed the location on Google Maps, then tried a reverse directory search to see if there was a phone number associated with the address. No — no phones or residents listed at the house.

And right around here, after the phone had been out of my possession for an hour or so and I could see where it was supposed to be and no one was responding to my message or repeated pings, I started to get a little obsessive. I sent a second message mentioning I knew what block the phone was on. I sent more pings. I sent a message offering a reward. I sent more pings. I looked at Street View again. Then more pings and more Street View. Damn! The phone wasn’t moving. Why didn’t whoever had it call?

I thought about calling the police, remembering an incident in Berkeley in which the chief had sent 10 officers looking for his son’s lost iPhone. I also recalled an episode in which a neighbor had used Find My iPhone to track and retrieve a stolen iPad. But I didn’t call the police because I wasn’t really sure my phone was stolen and it felt a little weird to enlist the cops for my own personal lost-and-found detail.

I thought about erasing the iPhone. When I opened the window to do that, though, the app warned I would no longer be able to track the device if I proceeded. That felt too final, and part of me still held out hope that a kindhearted, soon-to-be-revealed good Samaritan would deliver the phone into my hands.

The phone headed in the opposite direction, up over Potrero Hill. It made a feint toward my office, then traveled north…

I was thinking about borrowing a car and driving down to Daly City when suddenly the map showed the phone moving. First, it got on Interstate 280 and headed north. When it got to U.S. 101, it headed north again. The phone stopped just off the freeway in the Bayview District for 10 or 15 minutes. Google showed the location to be a storage warehouse, so I wondered whether my phone was about to be added to a bin of hundreds of lost or stolen mobile devices. I filed an online lost property report with the San Francisco police and waited further developments.

Whoa. The phone was moving again. Up to San Francisco General Hospital, just a half-mile from my office. Maybe some tech-savvy, kindhearted good Samaritan had figured out where I worked and was bringing it to me! I sent a message saying I was in the neighborhood if the Samaritan wanted to drop by.

But no. The phone headed in the opposite direction, up over Potrero Hill. It made a feint toward my office — Is the kindhearted Samaritan lost? — then traveled at public-transit speed north to the Caltrain Station at Fourth and Townsend, through SoMa, across the Financial District to North Beach and the edge of Chinatown. And there it came to an extended stop again.

I sent a couple more pings and another text during this odyssey and after I saw it had stopped. Still no answer.

I had insisted on updating coworkers on this drama’s minute-by-minute progress all afternoon. By this time, after 5 o’clock, most had voiced the reasonable opinion that the lack of response over several hours meant that whoever had happened upon the phone had no intention of returning it. I suspected they were right, but I also could picture the finder throwing it into a purse or backpack and forgetting about it. When I said that out loud, one office-mate shook her head and commented on my surprising faith in humanity.

It’s true I wasn’t necessarily thinking the worst about whoever was carrying the phone, but this wasn’t really faith. I was able to see where the phone was. But as long as the unseen finder remained silent, the phone was just as gone as those five-dollar bills I was in the habit of losing as a kid. So my messages started reasonably enough as a simple return request, then progressed from implied threat to promise to cajolery to resignation.

Finally, I had drawn out the workday about as far as it would go. I was noodling around with a couple of things and getting ready to leave work, and abandon my poor lonely iPhone in the city, when my desk line rang. I answered. “My boyfriend found your phone and would like to return it,” a woman said. “Well, I’d love to have it back,” I answered. The woman, who said her name was Andrea, gave me an address — it matched the location the phone-finder app gave — and told me her boyfriend, Danny, would be there when I arrived.

A coworker dropped me off in North Beach, I stopped at an ATM to get some cash, and then I went to the address on Pacific Avenue, a run-down city-owned apartment block. It was dark by this time.

I made my way up to the open-air second-floor corridor and found the apartment number I was looking for. The passageway was lined with containers full of empty bottles and cans to be recycled. The venetian blinds on the windows were broken and askew. I knocked on the door. No one came. I left to check whether I was at the right address. Yeah, I was. I went back upstairs and knocked again. Again no answer. I knocked louder. After 15 or 20 seconds, a lock turned and the door opened.

“You’re Danny?” I asked. “Yeah, that’s right.” he said. “I guess you don’t have to go and buy a new phone.” He said it twice and handed me the phone.

I shook his hand and took out my wallet, removed a twenty and gave it to him. “I wanted to give you something,” I said. “Wish it was more.” I looked past him into the apartment, where there seemed to be a floor-to-ceiling pile of, well, stuff.

He closed the door behind him. “That’s OK,” he said. “That’s OK.”

He told me he had seen the phone lying on a seat when he got off the train in Colma and picked it up. I wanted to ask him about the messages I’d sent, whether he had heard the phone going off and what he had made of all of that. But I didn’t. He was my good Samaritan, it turned out, and kindhearted enough to call me. I didn’t want to question any of that.

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Dan Brekke has worked in media ever since Nixon's first term, when newspapers were still using hot type. He had moved on to online news by the time Bill Clinton met Monica Lewinsky. He's been at KQED since 2007, is an enthusiastic practitioner of radio and online journalism and will talk to you about absolutely anything. Reach Dan Brekke at dbrekke@kqed.org.
  • guest

    Not much of a “good Samaritan” if he tried to shake you down for cash.

    • Me

      I thought the writer (Brekke) said “Wish it was more” and not the “good Samaritan.”

      • G

        I think guest is referring to this part: he said. “I guess you don’t have to go and buy a new phone.” He said it twice and…

  • Jimmy

    That is good. I had someone take my phone and decided to keep it. And only turning on my phone once a day to see if I wiped it yet or not.

  • Alicia Hathorne

    A couple of weeks ago my 10 year old daughter dropped her charm bracelet at a local park when running laps with her class. As soon as she noticed it was missing, all the kids looked, but nothing. After school I went with her and looked as well. We found a few other things that had been in her pocket, so we knew where it was lost, but it was not there. She was very sad. That night I made up some signs and drove over and put them up near where it was dropped. The next morning I got a call from a woman whose 12 year old had picked it up. She had seen my signs when going to post signs of her own. Her mom told me not to give her anything but I slipped a $20 into a card anyhow.

    On the other hand my 14 year old had his iPhone stolen directly out of his hand while riding MUNI. Baby’s first police report…

    • guest

      14 year olds don’t need iPhones.

  • Alpinedude

    In the circumstances, and given it was your fault, and assuming the phone meant anything to you, giving him only $20 was remarkably cheap of you.