One Mom’s Quest to Ace the SAT Alongside Her Son

| April 20, 2011 | 5 Comments
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Test prep is a massive, multi-billion dollar industry. That’s no surprise, considering the significance we place on testing. Say what you want about SATs and GREs and MCATs failing to fully represent a student’s skills or college readiness. Say what you want about schools looking at other factors when deciding who to accept. Tests still matter. And parents and schools spend a lot of money in order to prepare students to do well.

The project has given her a lot of insight into what teens have to go through in order to make time for something that is notoriously boring.

Debbie Stier has been thinking a lot about this, especially in relation to her high-school age son. Last summer, the two of them agreed to take practice tests together, and it launched her first SAT flashback.

Stier didn’t do well when she took the test back in 1982, and her score hampered her efforts to get into certain universities — and she doesn’t want her kids to have those same restrictions.

But Stier decided to do something else, too: She’s going to study alongside her son. She’s going to retake the SAT. And she’s going to get a perfect score.

She made this vow at the beginning of the year, and she’s chronicling her efforts nearly on a daily basis on The Perfect Score Project blog. Compared to her baseline score of the test she took in January, she plans to retake the SAT each time it’s officially offered (that’s seven four-hour tests in total).

Each month, Stier is trying out a new methodology or service. So far, she’s taken College Board and Kaplan courses (in both online and in book formats). She’s also tried watching Khan Academy videos. Next month, she’s going to sign up for Grockit, and she plans to eventually hire individual tutoring services as well.

It’s been almost 30 years since Stier first took the SAT, and even if her scores had once been stellar, time chips away at our test-taking skills and at our mastery of math and vocabulary. Having worked in the publishing industry, Stier wasn’t too concerned about the latter. But brushing up on — and learning — the necessary material to ace the math portion of the test is another thing altogether.

She’s teaching herself primarily, with some support from online material and books. And she has her son to help her too, she says.

True, she’s learning a lot about her own knowledge and learning process. But that teaching and learning relationship with her son might be the most important lesson here.

“I have a weird understanding what he’s going through,” she says, noting that she’s recognized how hard it is for him to carve out the time for studying, particularly after an already full day of school and homework. Describing her own limited “think hours,” she says that the Perfect Score Project has given her a lot of insight into what teens have to go through in order to make time for something that is notoriously boring.

By going through the study process with her son, she says she’s found a way to keep both of them motivated. They study together and run through practice tests together. They help each other troubleshoot wrong answers. Comparing scores on quizzes is akin to Scrabble she says, as the two of them engage in a friendly competition. “That’s the most powerful message,” she says, “work with your kid.”

But as it’s about her own quest for a perfect score on the SAT, Stier is paying attention to more than just studying alongside her son. Stier is monitoring her own learning and progress like a hawk. She’s also able to recognize that she studies better with books and learns better when she handwrites things than she does with computer-mediated studying and test-taking.

Book: I’m Excited.  Can’t wait.

Online Video: Dread.  Drudgery.  How much longer does this go on.

One exception to the video versus book preference: When I need a solution, I don’t feel the same “video dread.”  I’m happy to go in, learn what I need to, then leave.

She interviews herself about the experience.

Q. Does your son feel more pressure to get the perfect score now that you are doing this?

A. I wish.  No, he doesn’t.  That said, he has become more interested in the SATs now that I’ve climbed into the trenches with him.  In fact, he said to me last night “Mom, when can we do SAT work again?” (I swear to you.  This is an honest to god quote from April 10, 2011)

Stier speaks out about unsatisfactory experiences with online test prep courses, for example, when teens would likely remain quiet.

You can’t get to the answers until you finish the entire (and extremely long, I might add) “quiz.” When you finally get the answers, they come without the questions.  I realize that memory starts going in your 40s, but can anyone remember question #2 by the time they finish #50?

She’s approaching all of this with a great deal of self-reflection, a depth of analysis and a list of demands that a teenager studying for the SATs would unlikely have.

So when she aces the SAT test — and I’m sure she will — it won’t just be a matter of what Stier has mastered. It’s also what the rest of us might be able to learn about the world of test prep as well.

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  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_QHUNHQWFWIT46XWDSRP2ZO6MY4 Susie Watts

    As a private college counselor and test prep coach, I think anything that helps motivate a student to practice for the SAT or ACT is worth doing. Most of the students I work with individually or in small groups admit that preparing for the SAT or ACT is probably not something they would do on their own.

    College Direction
    Denver, Colorado
    http://www.collegedirection.org

    • http://www.perfectscoreproject.com Debbie Stier

      Don’t tell my son I’m telling you this, but I swear to you, he says on a regular basis “Mom, when can we study for the SATs again?” (we have NO time to study, and we are two people who WANT to!).

      There is some wonderful magic that happens when you climb into the trenches and walk a mile in your kids’ shoes, along side of them. I am not making this up (and I’m not someone who is inclined to do home school-ish projects). Until recently, I managed the education of my kids from my high rise office (i.e. get this and that tutor; stay on top of the school, etc.).

      I feel the fairy dust, for sure…..and I know my son feels it too, even if he doesn’t have the insight yet to know what it is.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_3XG27HF2HY56OGDDVGCNE5ZB3E Michael

    Great Story! Preparing for college is very important. You can use collegeinsightsonline.com for further information.

  • Tiffany Lien

    I love this! I’ve wanted to take the SAT again, even though I graduate high school 21 years ago and would have to re-learn a lot of math. Tutor Doctor is a great place to turn for private SAT or ACT prep.

  • Kishan Patel

    It’s great how you went through this test prep process alongside your son. In your article you mentioned how you were trying different online SAT test prep services such as Grockit. One online test prep website which I have recently heard a lot about is Testive (www.testive.com). It offers free SAT and ACT questions but also offers 1-on-1 tutoring online too. I think its one of the best SAT online prep and tutoring available today. Thought this might be a program you might be interested in looking further into.