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Guide to Celebrating Valentine’s Day, Bay Area Style

Valentine’s Day is upon us. Images of hearts and cupids are everywhere. What’s on your agenda for this special day? If you’re still open to ideas, we’ve got some for you.

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Tom Seawell

INSPIRING GIFTS

What’s on the menu for Valentine’s Day? This year, it’s all about salt, sugar, bacon and beer. And chocolate, of course, in every way from molten to heart-shaped. Here’s a pick from our list of delectable local treats.

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Jerry James Stone

DELECTABLE RECIPES

A box of chocolates and flowers might earn you some points, but you’ll definitely score by making something homemade. And you don’t even have to create something overly complicated. It’s the thought that counts. So here is a heartfelt and handmade recipe for Gooey Baked S’mores. Plop a heart-shaped marshmallow on top of some chocolate and a graham cracker, light it on fire and you are set! It is that easy. And that tasty!

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Lisa Congdon

ACTIVITIES FOR SINGLES

So you don’t have a boo. No biggie. Sure, it’s fun to hold hands and have someone buy you an eclair for no reason and all that jazz. Loving someone else is super. But there’s another form of love that predates loving someone else: the love you have for yourself a.k.a. The Greatest Love of All!  Here are a few ideas of ways to spend your Valentine’s Day. Read it here on KQED Pop.

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RULES FOR ONLINE ROMANCE

Conversation hearts and chocolate samplers fill the grocery aisles, your inbox is filled with coupon deals for roses and romantic dates, and your grandmother has yet again asked if you have a “special friend.” Dan Slater, author of Love in the Time of Algorithms visited KQED’s Forum recently. Here’s some advice on how to make sense of the online dating scene.

The Best Hotel Bars in the Bay

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The Clift's Redwood Room

A good hotel bar is a happy place, an elegant but relaxed haven where gussied up guests—locals and tourists alike—mix in right alongside post-work corporate casual and fresh-off-the-ferry explorers still in their sneaks and Alcatraz sweatshirts. The very atmosphere casts a more glamorous sheen over everyone. By the varied nature of their clientele, a constant stream of strangers, hotel bars carry just a hint of chance and mystery, and a sense that anything could happen.

Here’s a roundup of our favorites.

SAN FRANCISCO 

There’s no dearth of hotel bars in downtown San Francisco: the classics (e.g. Top of the Mark and the Starlight Room) to the modern lounges conveniently clustered on Geary Boulevard around Taylor Street (Hotel Monaco, Hotel Adagio, and so on). But apart from the tired, contrived, and sometimes creepy ones, these classics rise above the rest.

Redwood Room, The Clift Hotel (Geary at Taylor)

The Redwood Room at the Clift Hotel is a delight of “lodge deco”—as if Nick and Nora Charles shined up the Ahwahnee Hotel. Beautifully designed and decked out in wood panels and Art Deco details, this place exudes class and a chic sense of humor. The real action is at the back of the lobby—the Redwood Room—where the paintings slide and shift and a DJ keeps the night crowd lively with subdued house music. The bar itself, with its towering mirrored display, is breathtaking. For a quieter experience (i.e. where visitors can have an intimate conversation), check out The Living Room directly across from registration. Same booze, but with lush sofas and deep sinking club chairs.

Parallel 37 and The Lounge, The Ritz-Carlton (Stockton at California)

This lush bar might best be described as Mad Men set in the woods, with tables and counters fashioned from gorgeous slabs of trees surrounded by low-slung Danish modern furniture. For a more cosmopolitan setting, enjoy the handcrafted cocktails in The Lounge with the skyline for company.

The Clock Bar, Westin St. Francis (Union Square)

After a whirlwind shopping tour in Union Square, the Clock Bar at the St. Francis offers a lovely and easily accessible respite from the crowds—as well as a great stiff drink. It’s small, but comfortable and worth a stop for the tired and chilled.

(In a case of an exception proving the rule, honorable mention does go to the Tonga Room, which, for those with a sense of humor and a yearning for balmier climes, offers that unique tiki bar experience—really, who can resist drinks served in coconut shells with umbrellas?)

EAST BAY

Paragon, Claremont Hotel (Berkeley)

Located in the posh Claremont Hotel, this bar is spare and modern without being cold. Paragon offers stunning views of the sunset and the San Francisco skyline, especially pretty when it’s lit up at twilight. Take advantage of East Bay weather and enjoy cocktails on the deck. Live jazz Fridays and Saturdays.

Five, Hotel Shattuck (Berkeley)

Five is actually a restaurant in the Hotel Shattuck with a sweet bar and lounge that’s very easily accessible by BART (downtown Berkeley station). Make sure to catch the “after hour happy hour” offered everyday from 7-9pm.

SOUTH BAY

Hedley Club Lounge, Hotel De Anza (San Jose)

Since the 1930s, the Hotel De Anza has presided over downtown San Jose’s sparkling social scene. The beauty of the hotel is amplified by its storied past (one of San Jose’s few Zig Zag Moderne buildings). Inside, visitors can relax in the Hedley Club Lounge amidst art deco elegance. Settle back in a plush armchair or enjoy a table on the patio and, with Al Green softly crooning, you can actually enjoy a conversation. Live jazz Thursday-Saturday evenings.

The Grill on the Alley, The Fairmont (San Jose)

Located off Cesar Chavez park, the Fairmont boasts not one but three hotel bar options: the Pagoda, the Bamboo Lounge, and The Grill. Skip the first two and go straight to The Grill, which has an elegant Rat Pack feel with deep leather booths and a build-your-own martini menu.  It also has a patio and great people watching.

MARIN

The Pelican English Bar, The Pelican Inn (Marin)

The Pelican Inn transports you to another time and place: an English inn and pub tucked onto the rocky ledge of the Marin Headlands. Dark and cozy, it’s the perfect foil for coastal fog. Hike from Tennessee Valley and enjoy a pint by the fire as a reward. Enjoy a meal at the restaurant or take advantage of the pub’s bar menu and warm up with some English comfort food. On nice days, take your lunch on the patio, then stroll down to Muir Beach. (Nice to note that the Pelican takes advantage of its proximity to organic coastal farms and ranches, serving local meats and seasonal vegetables from the Zen Center’s Green Gulch Farm next door.)

Farely Bar, Cavallo Point (Sausalito)

Tucked under the Golden Gate Bridge, Farely Bar at Cavallo Point offers stunning views of San Francisco, the Bay and the Golden Gate Bridge—day or night. The bar has a distinct Northern California charm with a beautiful antique tin ceiling, leather club chairs and fireplaces. Enjoy drinks inside or out (they even provide blankets on the outdoor patio to keep stargazers warm in the evening).  Music Monday nights.

- By Deb Zambetti

 

What Are You Doing for New Year’s Eve? Seven Ideas for Celebrating in the Bay

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It’s always tough to decide what to do on the final night of the year. Below, we’ve made it easier for you to make a choice.

1.  Half Moon Bay Brewing Co. Early Bird New Year’s Eve Party

One of the benefits of living on the West Coast is that you can watch the ball drop on the East Coast before reasonable bedtime. Bring the whole family to the Early Bird Party at Half Moon Bay Brewing Co. and eat, listen to music and New Years it up, all before 9pm.

2.  The Fresh & Onlys at The Chapel in San Francisco

If you want to see some great music and enjoy a little of the craziness that is New Year’s Eve in the Mission, this show might be just the ticket. The Chapel is the new venue on Valencia Street that everyone has been talking about since September and this show is full of the perfect awesome rock and roll to help you ring in 2013.

3.  Erykah Badu at the Fox Theater in Oakland

Maybe you want your New Year’s Eve show a little more dramatic? There is no way Erykah Badu at the Fox won’t be amazing. Besides the fact that the Fox is one of the most beautiful venues in the Bay, Erykah Badu has literally never disappointed anyone?

4.  New Year’s Eve at Laughing Lotus in San Francisco

For some people, New Year’s Eve is a panic-inducing event that will never live up to expectations and generally ends in some sort of humiliation. Want to avoid over-drinking to cover up your anxiety and then watching someone else kiss your ex-boyfriend at midnight? How about yoga, chanting, music and dancing at Laughing Lotus? Get some exercise, get some perspective, get some community and wake up in the morning with a good attitude.

5.  Noon Year’s Eve at the Bay Discovery Museum in Sausalito

If you want to make sure your kids get a good dose of New Year’s Eve countdown-ing but don’t want that to get in the way of your more adult nighttime plans, take them to Noon Year’s Eve and let them countdown to noon instead! There’s even a special noontime ball drop.

6.  Hot Buttered Rum and Family

What would Bay Area New Year’s Eve be without some bluegrass? Everyone’s favorite, Hot Buttered Rum will keep you dancing all the way into 2013.

7.  Winter Wonderland in Downtown San Jose

Here’s a way to make New Year’s Eve live up to expectations: carnival rides and ice skating! Bring the whole family to downtown San Jose for an active and exciting and affordable kid-friendly New Years Eve.

– By Lizzy Acker

 

 

 

5 Ways to Rethink Gifting This Holiday

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By Amanda Stupi

Do you aspire to celebrate the holidays without contributing to consumerism culture, without polluting the Earth, without buying more stuff? Of course you do, you Prius-driving fan of public media. Not sure how? Here’s a step-by-step guide and some motivating facts pulled from Forum’s recent show on the topic.

  1. SET EXPECTATIONS EARLY.

Christmas morning is not the time to tell people that you do not want nor will you give a traditional gift. Katy Wolk-Stanley, who writes the blog The Non Consumer Advocate, suggests to tell people early on what to expect.

“The time to have those conversations about how you want to do gift exchanges is now, because a lot of people have already purchased their gifts.”

The idea here is to be pre-emptive but not preachy. Communicate what you hope for without judging or putting down the other person’s lifestyle — or a gift they may have already bought you.

“I let people know ahead of time that I would love to have, perhaps a contribution to an organization that I appreciate, or a gift certificate for a restaurant,” said Beth Terry, author of My Plastic-free Life. “And if they give me a thing that I don’t want, I’m very gracious about it.”

  1. THINK VINTAGE.

Consider this permission to regift — thoughtfully. This isn’t simply about passing along unwanted knick-knacks or boxed chocolates. This is about giving an object that you possess and enjoy to someone else who might also appreciate it.

“This could be a family object, not necessarily a Faberge egg of heirloom quality, but an aunt’s special brooch or a picture you’ve enjoyed at somebody else’s house,” said Wolk-Stanley. “Or even a book that you’ve read and you think, ‘I bet so-and-so would really like this book also.’”

Adds Terry: “I think there is definitely a stigma sometimes about second-hand things, but we can reframe that. We can use words like ‘vintage,’ or ‘antique.’ One of my friends bought another friend a beautiful vintage Kitchen Aid blender from eBay. It was old, it was second hand, but it was in great shape.”

  1. CHANNEL YOUR CREATIVITY.

Wolk-Stanley says it helps to view changing your gift-giving traditions as “a creative challenge rather than a limitation.” Finding a non-object (or a slightly-used object) to express your affection for someone is tough. But also fun. It allows you to consider what’s meaningful in your relationship with the recipient and what brings him or her joy.

Why We Should Be Less Wasteful
  • There are 62 Legos for every single man, woman, and child on the planet.
  • The average American uses as many resources as 32 Kenyans.
  • One million additional tons of trash is produced each week between Thanksgiving and Christmas.
  • There’s been a 1,000 percent growth in the use of self storage by Americans in the last 30 years.

- Adam Werbach, co-founder of the sharing service Yerdle

“When thinking about gifts for people, think about what they would really love and appreciate and not just what’s being thrown at you by the media and by the advertisers,” Terry said.

And remember: a one-size fits all approach to giving is wasteful, no matter how well-intentioned. “A stainless steel water bottle sitting in a closet is not a green gift if the person isn’t going to use it,” said Terry.

  1. GET OVER THE IDEA THAT GIFTS ARE FOREVER.

Most things in life are not forever. And that’s okay. Gifts should be no different.

“When I give a gift to someone, I’m not thinking, ‘I’m giving you this and you have to keep it forever,’” said Wolk-Stanley.

You have to disconnect from the object that you give — it’s not the end of the world for a present to be regifted or donated. Wolk-Stanley says if she gives a present and it doesn’t find a home in the person’s life, “[I'm] totally happy for them to move it along.”

Along those same lines, a gift doesn’t need to be a physical object that someone can hold or place on a shelf.

“You can have conversations with people, saying, ‘You know, I’m at a point in my life where I have the things that I need,’” said Wolk-Stanley. “‘I really appreciate the thought, but how about instead of doing a gift exchange between the two of us, let’s instead spend that money and go out to lunch.’”

And most experiences don’t require packaging, shipping, or a trip to the mall.

  1. ACCEPT THAT GIFT GRUBBERS EXIST.

Let’s face it — someone who begins emailing you gift ideas in October is probably not going to be happy with a used book. You have two choices. You can choose a gift-alternative for all the other people on your list and simply buy the gift grubber what he or she wants. Or you can grow some thick skin, tell your family and friends about your new approach to the season, and proceed as planned. If someone is offended?

“That’s on that person,” said Wolk-Stanley. “That has nothing to do with you. Let it go.”


Holiday Shopping, Indie Style: A Curated List from the Bay’s Local Shops

The holidays are the perfect time to merrily combine two of your favorite things: art and shopping. We know you love supporting artists and independent retailers, so we contacted local shop curators for creative holiday gift ideas: one from their own establishment and one from another neighborhood shop. Here are their picks.

 

1.   THE CURIOSITY SHOPPE

SF Zipper Pouch, $16

Lauren Smith and Derek Fagerstrom from the Curiosity Shoppe made selections for the holiday traveler who needs a little reminder of home. Their SF Zipper pouches are “perfect for all the little things in your life—great for pocket electronics, art supplies, toiletries, etc.”

 

Shifter Pack, $129

From SF-based outdoor company Alite, they suggest the Shifter Pack, which is “equally at home on your commute to work, or your trek up the Sierras.”

 

 

 

2.   PARK LIFE

Wooden Flashlight, $85

Jamie Alexander from Park Life has another idea for outdoorsy types, a handmade wooden flashlight by Gad Scot Tal that was created to benefit the Headlands Center for the Arts. It’s charming and “built of reclaimed wood from local dismantled dwellings.”

 

 

Farm Tactics Tote Bag, $88

From his own shop, Jamie suggests a canvas tote by Farm Tactics, which is made from recycled climbing nylon and is available in several colorways. For your fashion-conscious (or hoarding) friends, a bag is always the right answer when it comes to gift giving.

 

 

3.   THE THING QUARTERLY

The Thing Quarterly Subscription, $220

We contacted the good folks at The Thing Quarterly because a subscription to the “object-based publication” is high on our list for art lovers. Four unique art editions created by blue chip artists are delivered throughout the year, and nothing sounds more delightful than free, surprise art. The Thing’s Holiday Special subscription includes a bonus: their best selling edition, a Dave Eggers shower curtain, “or any amazing back issue of your choice.” It will arrive at your art lover’s door in time for the holidays, dressed up in Macfadden & Thorpe-designed wrapping paper.

 

Stoneware Mugs from Gravel and Gold, $24

Jonn Herschend and Sarah Simon from The Thing also recommend stoneware mugs by Albion, Calif. artist Cliff Glover, available at Gravel & Gold, which sounds like a good gift for your boss. It will hold her coffee each morning, reminding her to give you a raise next year.

 

 

4.   NEEDLES AND PENS

PUBLIC NOTICE zine, $8

Andrew Martin Scott, proprietor of local zine shop, Needles & Pens, recommends a recent publication called PUBLIC NOTICE by Nathaniel Russell. He says, “It’s hilarious, and everyone who picks it up laughs out loud.” It’s filled with fictional flyers that “run the gamut from Found Dog and Idea Party…all the way to an ad for Grampa’s Waterfall Skate Jam.”

 

2013 Songwriter Calendar from Curator, $30

He also recommends Curator’s 2013 songwriter calendar “because everyone loves Stevie Nicks, right?” You’ll also find portraits of Nina Simone, Bob Dylan, David Bowie, and Johnnie Cash.

 

 

 

5.  GENERAL STORE

Wood Cutting Boards, $90-$160

Julie Cloutier from General Store has ideas for the chef and the jewelry junky in your life. For the kitchen, Luke Bartels’ handcrafted, “elegantly shaped wood cutting boards,” would make a gorgeous addition to any countertop. Plus, double as a classy surface on which to serve cheese, or perhaps some bootleg foie gras.

 

 

Pt. Reyes Hoop Earrings, $75-$85

Available in different sizes in silver or gold, Julie also suggests the Pt. Reyes Hoops from Gravel & Gold, because everyone knows that the fastest way to a woman’s heart is through her pierced earlobes.

 

 

 

6.   ATOMIC GARDEN

Katz and Company’s Organic Artisan Olive Oil, $25

Jamie Kidson and Adrienne Armstrong of Oakland’s Atomic Garden have chef suggestions that pair nicely with The General Store’s cutting boards—a nice bottle of Katz and Company’s Organic Artisan Olive Oil from Market Hall in Rockridge.

 

 

Teak Pie Server, $38

Atomic Garden’s Teak Pie Server comes sweetly wrapped with a 100% linen dish cloth and is one of many lovely kitchen and home items available at this Rockridge shop.

 

 

 

7.  RARE DEVICE

San Francisco Map, $50

For the San Francisco expat (who mostly likely moved to New York or LA), Giselle Gyalzen of Rare Device suggests a print of Jennifer Maravillas’ San Francisco Map, a colorful addition to any ex-local’s (or local’s) art collection.

 

 

Anchor Denim Duffle Bag, $40

Giselle also suggests the Anchor Denim Duffle Bag from San Franpsycho, a shop that showcases local artists’ work through hand-screened items from clothes to dog wear. The cool anchor makes this bag perfect for hard-to-please teenagers.

 

 

Now that you’ve checked the chefs, bosses, nature and art lovers, travelers, jewelry junkies, expats, and moody teenagers off your list, it’s time to treat yourself. You need a new bag to cart around all those gifts, don’t you? Happy holiday shopping to all, and to all a good bag.

For more ideas on where to shop, check out KQED’s extensive list of local venues.

- By Kristin Farr

During the Holidays, 9 Ways to Volunteer

Here in the Bay Area we have a lot to be grateful for. We don’t need air conditioners, we’re surrounded by stream of cultural events and stunning landscapes on all sides, we have Sergio Romo and Buster Posey. With so much to be thankful for, why not give back to the community by volunteering this holiday season? For those who want to get out there but aren’t sure where to start, here are nine great places you can volunteer. And don’t forget to sign up with friends!

1.   PROJECT OPEN HAND

Project Open Hand was launched in 1985 by Ruth Brinker, who realized that many people suffering from HIV/AIDS were dying from malnutrition. Her home-delivered meals program grew and grew and now serves people in San Francisco and Alameda Counties with many different serious illnesses that cause them to be homebound. It has also expanded to serve seniors. Volunteering with Project Open Hand is not just about giving food to people who can’t feed themselves, but it is about getting out in the community and talking to people who may not have any other visitors all day.

2.   GLIDE MEMORIAL CHURCH

Glide Memorial Church is a San Francisco institution that welcomes people of all races, faiths, and opinions. Through their many programs, they try to break cycles of poverty and addiction and create a community that’s open and supportive of everyone. A great thing about Glide is that a large part of their work is done by volunteers and by getting involved, you can have a great impact and meet a lot of awesome people. Also, they have a bunch of holiday volunteer opportunities, serving meals, sorting toys and giving away grocery bags, so no excuses! Grab your friends and start helping out!

3.   THE MISSION CULTURAL CENTER FOR LATINO ARTS 

Since 1977 MCCLA has been working to promote Latino cultural expression in the Mission District of San Francisco through programs and activities representative of Latin American traditions. Since its inception, it has been driven by volunteers and community support. This year, you could be part of that community by leafleting, setting up or working as an usher for one their many events, maybe even their Holiday Youth Mariachi Concert on December 14 or Navidad Negra on January 5!

4.   CALIFORNIA STATE PARKS 

Want to do your volunteering outside? The California State Parks need you! With so many cuts to funding, our parks need volunteers now more than ever. Get out in the woods and help as a volunteer docent, helping visitors understand the cultural, natural and recreational resources of the parks, or get dirty maintaining trails, removing exotic plants, enhancing native plants or cleaning up beaches. Anything you do in one of California’s beautiful parks is guaranteed to not only be rewarding but also, a lot of fun.

5.   SECOND HARVEST BAND OF SANTA CLARA AND SAN MATEO COUNTIES

Volunteer at the Second Harvest food bank. From sorting food in the warehouse, to education and outreach, to working in the office, to food distribution, help the food bank out in the way that makes most sense for you. For many things, volunteers only need to be 14 or older! So bring your family and help your community eat well this holiday season.

6.   BAY AREA DISCOVERY MUSEUM 

Another way to get outdoors is by volunteering at the Bay Area Discovery Museum. If you love being creative, kids or just have a lot of extra energy, this might be the perfect opportunity for you. Over the holidays the museum has volunteer opportunities of all kinds, from greeting to guiding people through exhibits to working the store. Not to mention you get to be in beautiful Sausalito.

7.   SAN FRANCISCO VETERANS ADMINISTRATION MEDICAL CENTER

Most would agree that we owe a pretty big debt of gratitude to the men and women who fight for us overseas. During the holidays this year, why not help the Veterans Administration make the lives of wounded, ill and elderly veterans a little easier by taking one of their many volunteer assignments? Whatever your skills or area of interest, there is always something you can do. From playing music to escorting patients to appointments to driving vans, there are a million ways you can serve those who served you.

8.   SAN FRANCISCO SPCA

Okay, what you really want to do is play with cute animals, right? Then join the SF SPCA in its mission to find homes for homeless animals by being part of Macy’s Holiday Windows! Pets, helping out and the holidays: the perfect combination.

9.   SAN FRANCISCO BALLET

Supporting cultural institutions is important and the San Francisco Ballet needs your help! Their BRAVO program has many different ways you can help, from translations, to administrative support to helping out with the Nutcracker during the Ballet’s busiest time of year while getting to meet staff and dancers and learn what goes on behind the scenes that makes a ballet run. It’s not just a great way to serve the community — it’s also really fun!

You can find many more volunteering opportunities at Bay Area Volunteer Information Center.

- By Lizzy Acker

How to Live Big in a Small Space in San Francisco

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The San Francisco Board of Supervisors passed an ordinance allowing the building of apartments as small as 220 square feet. Whether those apartments get built or not, many Bay Area residents likely live in a small space — either a small studio, an in-law in the basement or one bedroom in a house divided among roommates.

Below are 10 tips for making the most of a small space, culled from Forum’s interview with Maxwell Gillingham-Ryan, founder of ApartmentTherapy and author of Apartment Therapy’s Big Book of Small, Cool Spaces and Miranda Jones, style editor for Sunset Magazine.

  1. BE SELECTIVE ABOUT YOUR SPACE. “Not all spaces are created equally,” said Jones. “If you’ve got natural light, high ceilings, and natural materials in the apartment, you’re going to feel as though you’re living well even though you’re living small.”
  1. EDIT, EDIT, EDIT. “Keeping your items very well edited” is one of the top things to keep in mind when living in a small or unusual space. That means when you bring something into your apartment, you bring something out. It’s about quality versus quantity.
  1. TIDY UP!  “In a way, large spaces just allow you to be lazy,” said Gillingham-Ryan, “and to not have to deal with stuff until much later when your space fills up. With most everybody, after about seven years they have a clutter problem. With a smaller space it just comes a lot quicker.” Jones also recommended keeping surfaces clean, because tabletops and countertops are usually not abundant in small apartments.
  1. TAKE SOME TASKS OUT OF THE HOUSE. If you live in a small space, chances are you are going to have to call on your surrounding neighborhood to fill some of your needs. Nature and laundromats are a given, but even some tasks may just be better suited elsewhere. Gillingham-Ryan recalls that after married and became a father, he started doing bills and other paperwork at his office. “Your home doesn’t have to be everything, all the time,” he said.
  1. MAXIMIZE EVERY INCH. “All unused space is fair game,” said Jones. “You’ve got to take your storage vertical, you’ve got to prop up your bed so you have extra storage under there. When space is at such a premium, Jones said you have to look at it differently. “Every door is a possible storage location.”
  1. MULTI-TASK (OR BUY ITEMS THAT DO). “Because there is no room for anything extra, everything has to do two jobs,” said Jones. “Your dining room table is also your office space.” Indeed, this video tour through a small Airstream trailer and micro-apartment shows that multi-tasking is a key element to making small spaces work.
  1. BUY BUILT-INS. Gillingham-Ryan is a fan of built-in features like shelves and drawers. “Spend your money on built-ins whenever possible because built-ins are wall-to-wall, they suck up all the space and you can use every inch,” said Gillingham-Ryan. “And visually, it creates a lot less busy space.”
  1. LET THE LIGHT IN. “Light is what makes a space feel expansive,” said Gillingham-Ryan. “I always tell people, ‘Three points of light to every room.’ It doesn’t seem like a lot but every client I’ve ever worked with has had trouble getting to two.”
  1. USE MIRRORS. “I’ve seen people over the years use mirrors in such incredibly inventive ways,” said Gillingham-Ryan. “They not only reflect light, they expand the space that they’re in. They can make the space brighter and just remove that sense of wall that is there otherwise.”
  1. PLAY WITH PAINT.  Light colors are key. “It doesn’t have to be white, it can be off-white,” said Gillingham-Ryan. “There’s still color in off-white.There’s a lot you can do between warm and cool colors. They can really change the feeling of a space.” In fact, Gillingham suggests that something as simple as a difference between off-white and regular white can make your room feel larger.  “If you do a bright white on the ceiling and an off-white on the walls, there’s a separation between wall and ceiling,” said Gillingham-Ryan. “It will make your walls feel taller.”

- By Amanda Stupi

 

9 Unforgettable Bay Area Experiences for Out-of-Town Visitors

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Chances are that if you’ve lived in the Bay Area for a while, you’ve seen a sight or attended an event that you felt you just had to share  the next time you had out-of-town visitors. Memorable adventures with out-of-towners can showcase our spectacular natural wonders, with holiday treks up to West Marin, from Limantour Beach to the Tomales Point Trail, from Lagunitas Creek to the Point Bonita Lighthouse in the Marin Headlands. But there are plenty of urban sights to take in, too. The truth is we have an embarrassment of riches to share with out-of-town guests at all times of year, though the selection during the holidays seems especially rich. Here are a few suggestions for impressing visitors. But be warned, after showing them the sights, they may want to keep coming back.

1.   THE HEIGHTS AND THE SIGHTS. The best things about the hills and mountains in the Bay Area: the view from the top. Dazzle your guests with the area’s famous vistas, most of which you can drive to: UC Berkeley’s Lawrence Hall of Science, Oakland’s Mormon Temple, and San Francisco’s Twin Peaks. The best of them all is Mount Diablo, elevation 3,849 feet above sea level, with what’s reputed to be one of the most expansive views anywhere: from the Pacific Ocean in the west to the Sierra Nevada in the east.

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Mount Diablo

And here are a couple of world-class vistas that are knock-outs even if you’ve seen them a thousand times before: the view of the Golden Gate Bridge and San Francisco from the Marin Headlands (there’s lots more to see there if you have time to drive out to the beach at Fort Cronkhite) and the view of the city from Treasure Island (accessed by the Bay Bridge).

For those in a mood to stretch their legs, here are a couple of favorite vistas you need to walk to: the southern end of San Francisco Bay from Mission Peak in Fremont—a trail that’s steep (a climb of over 2,000 feet), long (five miles round trip), and popular; the Richardson Bay view from the West Point Inn on Mount Tamalpais (refreshments available for weekend hikers), and the 50-mile bay view from the top of the Stonewall-Panoramic Trail (steep, and muddy in wet weather) in the Claremont Canyon Regional Preserve on the Oakland-Berkeley border.

2.   EAT SOUP. The little town on the San Mateo County coast south of San Francisco called Pescadero (just east of Highway 1, just south of Highway 84 is so small that once you’re there you’ll have no problem spotting a little restaurant and tavern called Duarte’s. Among other delicious fare, the establishment serves a specialty — cream of artichoke soup—artichokes being a specialty crop down along the San Mateo and Santa Cruz coasts. But you don’t have to drive all the way to Pescadero just to have a bowl of Duarte’s cream of artichoke soup (although it’s not a terrible idea). But you might want to take your guests on a leisurely tour of the parks or state beaches in the area—maybe even Año Nuevo State Park, where you can sign up for a guided walk to view mating elephant seals (reservations required; book early if you plan to go). Or Pescadero Creek Park. Or Pigeon Point Lighthouse. Then, once you’ve partaken of nature and gotten lots of outside air in your lungs, go to Duarte’s and eat soup.

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3.   HANG WITH TULE ELK. If you want to get out of urban landscape and see some spectacular nature, and you have all day—really, all day–here’s what you do: Drive up to Marin County, head out to Point Reyes National Seashore. The land- and seascape here is reason enough for your visit, but here’s something extra: the area is a tule elk reserve, and it’s common to see some of the large ungulates grazing along the road before you get to the ranch or out along the trail. One tip for the trail: It’s long, with lots of up and down after the first mile or so. The northern section is sandy and windy and can be heavy going. So wear layers for changeable weather and sturdy walking shoes. Bring water and a snack and prepare for a minimum of four hours out on the trail if you walk all the way to the end and back.

How to get there: When you get to Pierce Point Road, past Inverness, bear right, and stay on the twisting, rising, falling ranch road for 9 miles, past the signs for Abbotts Lagoon and Kehoe Beach. Eventually, you’ll arrive at the historic Pierce Point Ranch—also the start of the Tomales Point Trail, a 4.75-mile fire road and path to the northern tip of Point Reyes (that’s 9.5 miles round trip). Here’s the map.

Nearby attractions: All of the Point Reyes beaches have their own beauty, and there are many excellent trails in both the seashore and adjacent federal and state lands. Visit the Point Reyes Visitor Center, off Bear Valley Road just outside the village of Olema, for information. You can find food and refreshments in Inverness, Inverness Park, Point Reyes Station, and Olema.

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4.   HAUNT A HOTEL ATRIUM. Here’s a favorite vicarious-luxury experience that can provide a break from traipsing around the city: Hanging out in one of San Francisco’s grand hotel lobbies and atriums. The drill is simple: Go in, look around, be impressed, then maybe grab a (yes, expensive) drink at the lounge. The Hyatt Regency, at Market and California streets, plans artificial snowfalls in its soaring atrium. Another favorite: The Palace Hotel and its Garden Court (New Montgomery and Market). The Palace is self-conscious enough about its history—a sitting U.S. president died there—that it offers tours. At the top of Nob Hill is the grand Fairmont Hotel, which features a Gingerbread House and a holiday-themed afternoon high tea.

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5.   EXPLORE INDOORS. It’s conceivable that your visitors don’t want to jump in the car to take in the sights or tramp through our magnificent scenery — especially when the weather isn’t cooperating. Maybe they’d like to spend the day at one of our world-class museums instead. Throughout the holidays, the California Academy of Arts and Sciences in San Francisco’s Golden Gate Park is hosting ” ‘Tis the Season for Science,” a program featuring winter-themed exhibits and activities, complete with indoor snow flurries every half-hour. If we were making the call, we’d tell our visitors we were going down to The Tech Museum in San Jose for its “Mythbusters: The Explosive Exhibition,” which promises to unravel mysteries like, “Do you get wetter if you walk or run through the rain?”

Our other favorite big-time museums include the Exploratorium (which will be moving from its long-time quarters at San Francisco’s Palace of Fine Arts after the holidays), the Oakland Museum, the De Young Museum, and the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art. We’ll reserve honorable mention for another fine arts fave, the Palace of the Legion of Honor, because of its magnificent setting adjacent to Lincoln Park and Lands End. The best kids-centric museums include UC Berkeley’s Lawrence Hall of Science and Sausalito’s Bay Area Discovery Museum.


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6.   WALK A NEIGHBORHOOD. San Francisco is full of great walking neighborhoods— a combination of engaging human and physical topography. Most of our neighborhoods have a colorful main street and plenty of bustling activity: Chinatown; North Beach; Potrero Hill; Bernal Heights; Mission Bay; Clement Street in the inner Richmond; Union Street; Chestnut Street; the Upper and Lower Haight; Hayes Valley; SOMA and NOPA; Noe Valley; the Castro. You get the idea—they’re everywhere.

And perhaps tops for pure constant surprise: the Mission. The food, the murals, the parks, the people, fun shops like Paxton Gate and 826 Valencia Pirate Supply, and the ease of getting there for a walking trip on Muni or BART, makes this a favorite in-town/out-of-town excursion that can be as quick as a lunch stop or an all-day expedition.

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7.   TAKE THE FERRY. This is one of the cheapest, quickest, most accessible, and spectacular ways to show visitors some of what makes the place we live unique. You can choose from dozens of routes, but one of the most scenic is the San Francisco-Alameda-Oakland ferry, which sails from San Francisco’s Pier 41 or the Ferry Building at the foot of Market Street and makes stops in Alameda and at Oakland’s Jack London Square. On the way, it passes under the Bay Bridge and cruises up the Oakland Estuary between the Port of Oakland and the old Alameda Naval Air Station. The basic one-way fare for the 25-minute trip is $6.50, with discounts for kids and seniors. On the San Francisco end of the voyage, both Pier 41 and the Ferry Building feature a wide array of dining and shopping choices and ready access to transit for further travel (including connecting ferries to Sausalito, Tiburon, and Vallejo). There’s plenty of dining and entertainment at Jack London Square, too, along with a schedule of holiday events kicking off with a tree lighting and pop-up holiday market on November 30. Both the Ferry Building (on Tuesdays, Thursday, and Saturdays) and Jack London Square (Sunday) host farmers’ markets.

To explore the North Bay, take the ferries to Sausalito and Tiburon, both of which offer views of Alcatraz and the Bay Bridge. And there are plenty of opportunities for sightseeing, shopping, and dining within walking distance of the docks in both towns.

FERRIES: San Francisco Ferry, Golden Gate Ferry, Blue and Gold Fleet (Sausalito and Tiburon service).

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8.   RIDE THE CABLE CAR.  Ding ding! What a cliché! Ding ding! And priced to gouge out-of-towners ($6 for a one-way ride, except early in the morning and late at night; if you’re a Bay Area resident, you may use your Clipper card on the cable car if you have a month Muni pass or cash value loaded onto the card). But you know, San Francisco’s hand-crafted, steel-wood-and-glass transit antiques really are unique. There’s nothing quite like hanging on to the side (or hanging out on the rear platform) as that little car crawls up or clatters down San Francisco’s steep, steep streets. From the Powell Street turntable, you can ride from one pole of the city’s retail wonderland–the greater Union Square/San Francisco Centre/Bloomingdale’s sector—to the other—Fisherman’s Wharf and Pier 39 (via the Powell-Mason line) and Ghirardelli Square (via the Powell-Hyde line). If you and your guests want to delve into cable car lore, then you need to alight at Muni’s Cable Car Museum, at Washington and Mason streets (both Powell Street routes pass the museum.)

It’s true the cable cars may be crowded with holiday tourists. If you want to avoid them the same way they want to avoid you, here are a couple of tips: Take the short California Street line (starts at Market Street outside the Hyatt Regency, goes west up over Nob Hill, turns around at Van Ness Avenue). Or ride after 9 p.m., when the fare falls to $3 and the crowds thin out. The cars run until nearly 1 a.m. every night of the week.

9.   VISIT THE ROCK: Alcatraz! Yes, here’s another San Francisco cliché. But hear me out: the story of the former fort/military prison/federal penitentiary/Native American rebellion headquarters is captivating, and the setting is both beautiful and grim. A ticket to Alcatraz these days gets you a boat ride out to the island and back and an excellent 45-minute audio tour of the cellhouse. Concessionaire Alcatraz Cruises also runs a night tour, which includes special programs on the island. Note: reservations are required for all Alcatraz tours.

- By Dan Brekke

7 Spooky Ways to Celebrate Halloween in the Bay

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There’s no shortage of ways and places to celebrate Halloween and to show off your Honey Boo Boo costume this year. Below, we’ve collected the best of all the offerings to bring you these seven awesome options for Halloween.

HALLOWEEN CRITICAL MASS
Fri October 26, 5:30pm at Justin Herman Plaza in San Francisco
What’s better than San Francisco’s biggest bike party in costume? Answer: nothing. Bring a helmet and your bike lights and join the masses riding through the streets to celebrate safe biking and of course, Halloween!

SATURDAY NIGHT SPECIAL OPEN MIC/KARAOKE PARTY
Sat October 27, 7pm at Nick’s Lounge in Berkeley
Feeling less like a jock and more like an art kid this Halloween? Dress as Emily Dickinson and bring your poetry to this crazy fun open mic. Come for the literature and stay for the karaoke afterwards.

GAULT HALLOWEEN/DIA DE LOS MUERTOS PARADE AND CARNIVAL
Sat October 27, 9am in Santa Cruz

There’s nothing like a good Halloween parade filled with adorable children. This Santa Cruz tradition has been going on 63 years, which says something! Participate in the parade yourself and end up at the most Halloween-y of Halloween events: a school carnival! Good luck at the cake walk!

GREENSKY BLUEGRASS
Wed October 31, 9pm at The Independent in San Francisco
Bluegrass and Halloween go together like caramel apples and trips to the orthodontist, which is to say THEY GO TOGETHER. Make sure your costume allows for dancing because you will really want to dance at this party.

GHOST WALK
Wed October 31, 6pm at San Francisco City Hall

Do you like ghosts but maybe don’t want them literally trying to kill you? Want to mix your Halloween chills with a little civic pride? Then why not take the Ghost Walk through City Hall and learn about all the creepy stuff that happens when the lights go off.

JOURNEY TO THE END OF THE NIGHT
Sat November 10, 6pm at Dolores Park

This is a perennial Halloween favorite and though it falls about a week after actual Halloween this year, I still highly, highly recommend this zombie-filled, citywide scavenger hunt for adults. Bonus: it starts in the Mission this year, which means a least a few less hills!

WINCHESTER MYSTERY HOUSE FRIGHT NIGHTS
Throughout October and November at the Winchester Mystery House, San Jose
If you like being scared or even better, watching your kids get scared, stop wasting time and head to the Winchester Mystery House. What better way to get into the Halloween spirit than screams of terror coming from your loved ones as they’re chased by a masked man with a chainsaw?

-By Lizzy Acker

Not Just for Tourists: Walking Tours Locals Love

If you’re a San Francisco resident, chances are you think city walking tours should be relegated to shivering tourists waving from open-topped tour buses. But sometimes it’s fun to play the tourist even in your own city, especially one like ours that’s so full of storied streets, alleys, and buildings. Walking tours are a great way to get out and about and learn about the city’s colorful, flamboyant history.

We asked local tour operators which tours are most favored by locals, and here’s what they had to say.

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DASHIELL HAMMETT TOUR. Fans of noir fiction and Dashiell Hammett, author of the famous mystery novels starring detective Sam Spade, will love this tour, which is the longest running literary tour in the nation. It’s led by Don Herron, author of The Literary World of San Francisco and editor of selected letters of Philip K. Dick – a guy who clearly knows his stuff and has been praised not just for dressing in a snap-brim hat and trench coat, but for leading a tour that, according to The Wall Street Journal, “moved like a drunken cat through the streets and back alleys of the Tenderloin. It passed Southeast Asian diners, tawdry hotels, bars without windows, and places where a twenty will buy you more than the weekend’s groceries.” $10 per person.

COME OUT TO THE CASTRO. It’s hard to imagine now, but the neighborhood we call the Castro was once a subdued, working class community known as “Eureka Valley.” Take this tour with Foot! Comedy Walking Tours and laugh your socks off while you learn about the neighborhood’s history from the 19th century to the present. Stops include the Castro’s very first gay bar, the surprising controversies that flutter with the iconic massive rainbow flag, and of course the Castro Theatre, which first opened in 1922. As the company’s web site promises, “you’ll  have a gay old time.” $30 per person.

CITY SCAPES AND PUBLIC PLACES. Some of the city’s most iconic gems are on display, like the Transamerica Building, the Hallidie Building, known for its “glass curtain walls,” and the Hunter-Dulin Building with its late Gothic revival style of architecture; as are some lesser known and even hidden from the street. Take this tour, offered by SF City Guides, on a Friday (10 am or 1:30 pm) and check out the best of the Financial District’s architecture as well as secret spots high and low, from the Transamerica Redwood Park to the rooftop decks such as the Four Seasons at 343 Sansome or the Crocker Galleria Rooftop Terrace, both POPOS (“privately owned public spaces”) that are popular lunchtime spots on sunny days. Free.

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GOLD RUSH CITY. Back in 1848, the the small village of San Francisco transformed almost overnight into a pop-up city – chaotic and lawless. This tour, from SF City Guides, will fill you in on when and how local militias took the law into their own hands in the 1850; the local eccentric by the name of Joshua Norton who declared himself “Emperor of the United States” and whom residents adored; and how entire crews abandoned hundreds of ships in Yerba Buena Cove in order to join the Gold Rush. Free.

THE STINKIN’ RICH AND DIRTY MONEY THAT BUILT NOB HILL.You may know about the dirty ways of San Francisco’s Railroad Barons, the 19th century’s masters of corruption, but have you ever heard about the financial shenanigans of the Bonanza Kings, the four men whose two silver mines produced $3,000,000 per month? Find out all about glittering Nob Hill’s unethical underbelly with this tour from Foot! Stops include the requisite Nob Hill mansions as well as the Fairmont Hotel and Grace Cathedral. $30 per person

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TELEGRAPH HILL STAIRWAY HIKE. Telegraph Hill is perhaps best known for Coit Tower, but its residents know that the landmark is just one of the neighborhood’s many attractions. With this tour from SF City Guides, you’ll pound the pavement (and the wooden Filbert Street steps) to enjoy some of the best views of the Bay the city has to offer. Along the way, your guide will point out some of the neighborhood’s most attractive gardens as well as cottages that date from the Gold Rush era. If you’re lucky, you’ll see the flock of wild parrots made famous in the documentary The Wild Parrots of Telegraph Hill. Free.

- Meghan Laslocky