While working at Sanrio Surprises, a Hello Kitty store in a strip mall, Lieu, then 15, would pass by See’s Candies everyday, and wonder how chocolates are made. “We’d obviously eat their samples and buy chocolates too but eventually one day I was like, ‘Wait! How did they make that?’ I loved to create things, but I couldn’t figure out how to make chocolate.”

She started poring over magazine recipes, experimenting with ingredients, and saving up the wages she got from working at the Hello Kitty store to buy chocolate-making supplies.

Her big break came when their Santa Rosa neighbor, a marketing person for KSRO, tried her chocolates. Within a week, Lieu found herself on the radio talking about her hobby and newly-minted chocolate business. “Everyone we knew was calling in and they were like, ‘Wendy! We didn’t know you started a business.’” “And I was kind of like, ‘Me neither!’”

Wendy and Susan with their late mother, Jennifer Ha, in El Cerrito circa 1986. Photo courtesy of Wendy Lieu

Though Lieu clearly had a talent for chocolate-making, she felt like she didn’t have the support of her father, who raised Wendy and sister Susan as a widowed single parent after their mother passed away when Wendy was 14. As with most immigrant parents, Lieu’s father’s desire for a better life for their children played a very significant part in his view of the sister’s budding business. “’I didn’t bring you to the U.S. so that you could make chocolates,’” Lieu recalls her father telling her. Her father wanted her to go to college and get a stable job. Lieu said that was the toughest part—seeking her father’s approval.

So Lieu went on to college, graduated and pursued a career at a major consulting firm. However, chocolate remained her side hustle, and passion. She maintained her chocolate business with her sister and attended pastry school at night and during the weekends at Tante Marie.

In 2012, Lieu made the decision to work full time at Socola. It wasn’t the challenge of owning a business that worried her, or the boys’ club of chocolatiers. With names like Joseph Schmidt, Jacques Torres, and Dolf Teuscher, the world of chocolate is a mostly-white, male boys’ club. “I taught myself and sometimes it feels like I’m not as credible as other people, but my chocolates speak for me,” Lieu said. “Delicately daring” is how she describes her chocolates.

Lieu was worried about how her father would react.

They were driving from Houston to Austin when she broke the news—that she was quitting her job and focusing on chocolates full-time. “If I put 100 percent of my energy into it I don’t know what it could be but it could be something amazing and I would rather try for that—to see what that unknown is going to be.”

His reaction was one she did not expect. “He started tearing up and then was like ‘That is exactly what me and your mom said when we left Vietnam. Do it.” Lieu still gets teary-eyed recalling that moment of her dad’s acceptance.

Wendy with her father, Tom Lieu. Photo courtesy of Wendy Lieu

Lieu’s come a long way from the teenaged girl who just had a passion for making chocolates to a full-fledged business woman and chocolatier.

“I’m very proud and I think she will be very successful,” says Lieu’s father in a recent interview. “I’m very happy.”

Socola Chocolatier + Barista’s grand opening is Tuesday, February 11. Earlier that week, Lieu willing picking up her father, who’s flying in from Texas to celebrate with his daughter.

Information

Socola Chocolatier + Barista is located at 535 Folsom Street in San Francisco. The grand opening will be on Tuesday, February 11. Store hours will be: Mon-Fri 7am-6pm; Sat: 9am-3pm; Closed on Sunday.
See Wendy Lieu’s Socola Jasmine Tea Truffle Recipe.
Wendy Lieu will be honored next month on March 8 at CAAMFeast, an evening of food tastings, films, and a live auction fundraiser honoring the achievements of Asian American chefs and foodmakers. CAAMFeast takes place Saturday, March 8, 2014 from 6-9pm at One Kearny Club in San Francisco.

Ashlyn Perri is the Digital and Interactive Media associate for the Center for Asian American Media. She was born, bread and buttered in a Japalian (Japanese & Italian) household in San Francisco.

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